Make sure the guy
is mature.
You can never have a mature relationship if the guy is immature. It
kills the whole idea of the mature relationship.
Be open with
things.
You are mature adults and you need to talk about things. Don't be an
eleven-year-old and accuse him of everything. Talk about the subject maturely
and calmly.
Decide where you
stand in regards to marriage.
Marriage is part of it. It's the way to say "I love you. Let's be
adults and live our lives together." If you have been with the guy for a
while and the question never comes up talk about it. If he isn't committed, and
you are it's time to move on. Face it, if he isn't committed, how do you know
if he ever will be?
Decide on the
physical side of the relationship.
Sex is always a factor in a mature adult relationship. Teens shouldn't
have sex. But, for adults, sex makes it mature and healthy. If you have been
married, it's time to make your move. It's very unhealthy for a man and a women
to not express themselves through passion and making love with each other.
Don't cheat.
Cheating is never the answer. If your man isn't giving you what you
want, it's time to have a serious talk with him about your wants. You are the
woman and he needs to understand that it's not just men that want sex. A
cowards way out is to buy a dildo. If you want to be mature, don't do that.
