- Have a goal in
life, and try your absolute best to achieve it. A life without a goal
is like trying to walk to the other side of the country without a map. You
may need to search long and hard to find something that you're passionate
about but it will be worth it. It will set your whole life straight.
- Never try to sell
yourself for anything! Self respect is the most important thing a
women can have. Be true to yourself and don't let anyone else steer you
away from the right path and stop you from achieving your goals.
- Don't have sex
until marriage! This may sound very old fashioned, but it is essential
if you want to find true love and don't want to end up in complicated
situation that will cost you your whole life. These days sex seems like a
casual activity, but it certainly isn't! It could get you into a lot of
complicated situations that will ruin your life! If a guy loves you enough
he will want to spend his entire life with you so he wouldn't mind waiting
until marriage (that's if he's the right guy). If he is willing to wait,
it will really show you how much he loves you. Without sex, he will love
you more as a person rather than love you for your body and what he can do
with it.
- Respect others in order to gain respect
for yourself. Be kind and generous so people will be kind towards you.
- Respect your
parents. Your parents are the most important people in your life. Even
if you don't always get along with them, be kind to them and always
respect them. Just remember, without them you wouldn't be here. Although
they may not be able to fulfill all your wants and needs, they are still
your parents.
- Be grateful for
everything you have. Just remember there are people that are in worse
situations. Try not to complain about anything; instead take actions to
improve the situation.
- If you're in a bad situation, or life is
not going the way you planned, don't worry; because at some point everyone
goes through rough spots. Life wouldn't be life without any drama!
There is no one in this world that lives a life without any problems.
- Don't waste time.
Time is one of those things that you will never get back no matter how
hard you try. Do things that will help you in life like learning to swim
or basic sewing, do some volunteering or charity work. You'll regret
wasting your time when you look back in life.
- well in school! Going to school and
achieving good grades is the key to being successful. If you get high
grades, your parents will be proud of you and people will respect you more
and take you seriously. If you slack off, you'll regret it once you apply
to colleges.
- Spend time learning about other cultures
and religion. Watch the news to increase your intelligence and
knowledge about the world. Tolerance is key.
- Make yourself look good. This does
not mean go on crazy diets and devote your whole life into making yourself
look good. Just remember to eat healthy, exercise, and make yourself look
presentable. Self confidence makes every woman beautiful.
- Discover and embrace the talents and
gifts you were born with. Do not show them off but put them to use. If
you are good at painting, paint often! If you are good at dancing enter
talent shows!
- Make friends.
Be welcoming to everyone and try to help out others when they are
struggling or in need of a friend. If you have many friends it is obvious
that you are a kind and respectable young adult.
- Embrace your
natural beauty. Don't cake on make-up. You are you and that makes you
unique. If you can't except yourself for who you are than you won't be
respected.
- Don't let anyone
bring you down. If they are judging you than they are no better
themselves. If you are a kind person and you know that no one can make you
feel bad about yourself. There is a saying: "No one can make you feel
inferior without your consent."
